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#karmaisabitch – Updates!

So I still haven’t received the check. If I don’t receive it tomorrow, I will put a stop-payment on it and have them re-send it. If it was sent on 7/08 from San Antonio, it should not have taken this long to have gotten here. 😒
Anyhoo, because I let curiosity get the best of me and I had nothing better to do, I contacted the Attorney General’s office again to try and see if I could find out any more information about my case. The main reason being this – this guy has run from paying child support at every turn since it was court-ordered, including (but not limited to) moving and even going so far as to quitting his job(s) once wage-garnishment was used as a threat. I wanted to see if I could find out once and for all where this money was coming from so I could determine whether it would be a one-time thing or something steady. I advised the agent I spoke with today that I knew he was on SSI Disability, and she stated that because I knew that, she could admit that it is in fact what is being garnished and that it will be a monthly payment, so long as he’s receiving it. I asked if there was anything he could do to fight it, and she said that he could get an attorney, but that a judge would most likely refuse to reduce the amount garnished due to how much he owes in arrears ($138k and some change).

So that’s that.

Brennan now knows that we will be receiving child support, and his first reaction was to ask, “Why not just let him have it…? It’s not like the guy has much.” I explained to him that this money is to help support him and that it is something that his father would not have had to worry about had he been doing what he should have from the get-go. I wanted so much for him to feel triumphant, but in truth, he doesn’t know the guy from Adam, so his first reaction was to take pity on him.

His father will never know what an amazing person Brennan is and will become, and for that, I am sorry for the guy…because he really wasted his life never wanting to get to know him.

Brennan is the better for never having known him.



2 comments on “#karmaisabitch – Updates!

  1. His loss,our gain! Almost the same statment I made in an similar situation years ago!


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